Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazingly simple things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his amazing must-read book, "How to win friends and influence people" talks about the amazing power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, saving a lot of time and energy trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you're a lady and want to brush a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with five people - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?
8. What do you regret not doing the most in your life?
8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever been caught with no clothes on in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What's your biggest sexual 'turn-ons' and 'turn-offs'?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?
Dale Carnegie in his amazing must-read book, "How to win friends and influence people" talks about the amazing power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, saving a lot of time and energy trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you're a lady and want to brush a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with five people - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?
8. What do you regret not doing the most in your life?
8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever been caught with no clothes on in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What's your biggest sexual 'turn-ons' and 'turn-offs'?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?
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